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SUCCESS & FAILURE BOTH ARE THE OUTCOME OR RESULT OF THE ACTIONS TAKEN. BOTH OUTCOME IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS AND MUST NOT BE CONNECTED TO EGO OR INDIVIDUALITY. ATTACHMENT TO THESE OUTCOMES CONSTANTLY KEEPS US TO LIVE IN PAST RATHER THAN IN THE FUTURE. SUCCESS & FAILURE ARE OCCURRENCE HAPPENING CONTINUOUSLY WITH CONTINUOUS ACTIONS. THESE ARE SET OF LESSONS TEACHING US TO MOVE FORWARD AND IMPROVE FROM TIME TO TIME FOR BETTER OUTCOMES. IT SHOULD NOT MATTER WHETHER IT HAS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE CHARGES, IT SHOULD NOT AFFECT ONE'S BELIEFS IN ANYWAYS. ONE MUST REMAIN NEUTRAL SPECIALLY TO FAILURES, CONVERTING THESE  FAILURES DRIVING FORCE TO ACHIEVE BETTER.

WE RECEIVE WHAT WE GIVE. WHATEVER WE WANT TO ACHIEVE MUST BE FIRST GIVEN IN ONE OR ANOTHER FORM. GIVING IS RECEIVING. IF WE GIVE LOVE WE WILL RECEIVE LOVE, SAME HOLDS  GOOD FOR RESPECT, COURAGE, JOY, BLESSINGS, HAPPINESS, HUMBLENESS …. THIS IS A LAW OF UNIVERSE AND HOLDS GOOD FOR ALL ASPECT OF OUR LIFE. IF WE SEE ALL AROUND US THE UNIVERSE, THE NATURE, BIRDS, ANIMALS, INSECTS .... EVERYONE IS GIVING US SELFLESSLY ALL THROUGHOUT THEIR LIFE CYCLE WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN. IF WE WANT TO CLIMB UP LADDER OF SUCCESS, WE CAN'T MOVE ALONE. WE NEED TO EMPOWER PEOPLE AROUND US, ENCOURAGE THEM, PUSH THEM, LEAD THEM TO ACHIEVE NEXT LEVEL, WE MUST GROW TOGETHER. WE MUST LIFT OTHERS TO LIFT OUR SELF HIGHER.

PAINTER HAS TO IMAGINE HIS CREATION IN MIND BEFORE PAINTING IT, SIMILARLY ONE HAS TO DREAM BEFORE MAKING IT A REALITY. PAINTING CREATED BY PAINTER MAY OR MAY NOT BE AS  CLOSE AS TO PAINTER'S IMAGINATION, BUT PAINTER HAS TO FOLLOW ALL THE PROCESS REQUIRED IN MAKING OF PAINTING BEFORE FINAL OUTCOME, SIMILARLY ONE HAS TO DO WHAT IT'S NEEDS TO BE DONE TO ACHIEVE ONE'S DREAM. ONE MUST HAVE TO FOLLOW ALL  THE NECESSARY STEPS IN COURSE OF ACHIEVING DESIRED DREAMS. ONE HAS TO FOLLOW IT  WITH PERSISTENCE AND WITH PASSION, THERE IS NO SHORTCUTS, EACH AND EVERY PROCESSES LEADS ONE STEP CLOSE TO FINAL OUTCOME. ONE MUST IMAGINE SUCCESS AND THEN WORK TOWARDS SUCCESS OF THAT IMAGINATION.

DO KARMAS WITH RIGHT INTENTIONS AND RESULTS WILL FOLLOW. IT'S IMPORTANT TO NOT TO KEEP EXPECTATIONS OF RESULTS AS ONE DOES NOT HAVE ANY CONTROL OVER IT. IF ONE TAKES RIGHT AND TIMELY ACTIONS IN THE RIGHT DIRECTIONS THERE IS NO LOOKING BACK. EACH ACTIONS MATTERS AS IT MOVES STEP BY STEP TOWARDS THE DECIDED PATH. ONE MUST MANAGE ACTIONS AS ACTIONS GENERATES ENERGIES, ACTIONS SHAPES MIND IMAGES, ACTIONS CHASES DREAMS, ACTIONS CREATES MOMENTUM, ACTIONS BREAKS THE BARRIERS, ACTIONS ATTRACTS PERSISTENCE, ACTIONS BEGINS REACTIONS, ACTIONS DEFINES OUTCOME, ACTIONS ESCORTS RESULTS, ACTIONS LEADS SUCCESS, ACTIONS BUILDS FUTURE.

PARADIGM IS THE PATTERN, THE PATTERN TO THINK, TO ACT & TO REACT, TO BEHAVE, THE PATTERN WHICH REFLECTS ALL EMOTIONS, PATTERN WHICH OVERPOWERS MIND, SUBLIME MIND, CONSCIOUS & SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, PATTERN TO SUCCESS & FAILURE. PARADIGM IS A PATTERN IN WHICH ONE LIVES LIFE. ANY CHANGE IN ONE AREA, CAN INFLUENCE ENTIRE PATTERN AND ULTIMATELY THE WAY OF LIFE. CHANGE ACTS AS A CATALYST AND ACTS IN MULTIPLE FOLDS, IT'S A CHAIN REACTION. PATTERN CHANGE CAN BE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE, ONE CAN SEE BOTH SUCH PATTERNS IN ALL WALKS OF LIFE.  PATTERNS PARTLY OR FULLY CAN BE ERASED, RE-WRITTEN & MODIFIED.  QUESTION IS HOW TO CHANGE PARADIGM? WHAT'S THE PROCESS? ANSWER IS PARADIGM IS NOTHING BUT PATTERNS OF BELIEF SYSTEM BEEN REINFORCED IN CONSCIOUS AND SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. EVEN A SMALL CHANGE IN BELIEFS CAN LEAD TO ENORMOUS CHANGE IN PARADIGM AND THE PERSON AS A WHOLE.

SHORTCUTS DOES LEAD TO SOMEPLACE WHICH ARE NOT REAL, TO REACH OUT TO PLACE WORTH GOING ONE NEEDS TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES. ONE NEEDS TO TAKE NECESSARY EFFORTS, WHICH ALSO LEADS TO THE CONTENTMENT. SUCCESS IS IN THE PURSUIT OF PURUSHAARTH. WITHOUT PURUSHAARTH ONE CAN NOT REALISE SENSE OF ACHIEVEMENT. SUCH SUCCESS CAN NOT BECOME MILESTONE AS WELL CAN NOT BECOME SOURCE OF INSPIRATION.  THERE IS NO SHORTCUT TO SUCCESS, THERE IS NO SHORTCUT IN THE PROCESS PATH OF SUCCESS AND THERE IS NO SHORTCUT TO PURUSHAARTH. REAL FRUITS OF SUCCESS CAN ONLY BE ENJOYED BY THE PROCESS OF PURUSHAARTH.

HAVING SKILL SETS & IMPLEMENTING SKILL SETS  ARE TWO DIFFERENT ASPECTS.  SKILL SETS CAN BE INBORN TALENT OR CAN BE DEVELOPED BY PERSISTENCE. IMPLEMENTING SKILLS IS PUTTING IT INTO ACTION OR EXECUTION. IRRESPECTIVE OF HOW GOOD ARE THE SKILL SETS, AT THE END RESULT DEPENDS ON HOW WELL IT'S EXECUTED. SUCCESS OF THE SAME WILL LARGELY DEPEND ON HOW PASSIONATELY IT IS EXECUTED. THE END RESULTS COULD BE BETTER IF THE SKILLS ARE COMBINED WITH PASSION. PASSION IS DRIVEN BY THE LOVE WITH WHICH IT'S BEEN EXECUTED. THAT'S HOW COMBINATION OF LOVE AND SKILLED WORK CAN GIVE MARVELOUS RESULTS.

LIFE IS ALL ABOUT LIVING UP WITH FIGHTING SPIRIT. EACH STAGE OF LIFE WILL BRING NEW SETS OF CHALLENGES AND FUTURE DIRECTION DEPENDS ON  HOW WE BEHAVE AND LIVE IN GIVEN SITUATION. HARDER WE FIGHT BACK, HARDER WILL BE THE NEW CHALLENGES AND BRIGHTER WILL BE THE FUTURE. THERE IS GOING TO BE MORE FAILURES THAN THE SUCCESS, IT'S IMPORTANT WITH EACH KNOCK DOWN (FAILURES) TO GET UP AND FIGHT BACK IN EACH ROUNDS for the final WIN. be aware that IT'S NOT IMPORTANT TO WIN AS END RESULTS ARE NEVER IN OUR HAND, BUT IT'S IMPORTANT to FIGHT, fight for a win, FIGHT AGAINST ALL ODDS, FIGHT BACK IN EACH ROUNDs TO BECOME STRONGER AND STRONGER. THIS IS THE ONLY PROCESS BY WHICH CHAMPIONS ARE MADE. BE THE CHAMPION !!

LEADERSHIP IS NEVER ABOUT IMPOSING DECISIONS, IT'S ALL ABOUT MANAGING & EMPOWERING PEOPLE. ALLOWING PEOPLE TO GROW, GIVING FREEDOM, CREATING ENVIRONMENT FOR CREATIVITY TO FLOURISH .  LEADERS VIEW OR OPINION IS JUST ANOTHER PROSPECTIVE , A VIEW POINT. LEADERSHIP MUST BE FLEXIBLE AND FREE FROM EGO AND SELF-CENTERED BEHAVIOR. LEADERSHIP ALWAYS ACTS AS A SUPPORT SYSTEM AND LEADS A TEAM TOWARDS GROWTH & SUCCESS. TRUE LEADERSHIP SEES THINGS BEYOND OBVIOUS AND ITS ALWAYS FUTURISTIC.

FAILURE IS LEARNING TOWARDS SUCCESS, FAILURE IS AWARENESS TOWARDS ANOTHER WAY OR DIRECTION TO SUCCESS. FAILURES ARE SMALL WINS AND STEP WISE PROGRESS TOWARDS SUCCESS. IN OTHER WORDS SUCCESS IS SUMMATION OF ALL THE FAILURES OR SMALL WINS, RESULTING IN ENORMOUS ACHIEVEMENTS . SUCCESS & FAILURE GOES HAND IN HAND, WE LEARN, WE APPLY LEARNING, WE SMARTLY RE-LEARN, WE APPLY BETTER, AND SO ON. AT END WHEN WE CONSOLIDATE EVERYTHING, IRRESPECTIVE OF END RESULTS, ONE MUST REMAIN OPEN & NEUTRAL, ONE MUST ENJOY THIS PROCESS, ONE MUST LOVE EVERY ASPECT OF ONE'S INVOLVEMENT, ONE MUST REMAIN HAPPY. THESE ARE THE KEYS TO RECEIVE THE TRUE & PURE FRUITS OF ACTIVE FAILURES.

Discipline  is SET OF EXPECTATION, action or inaction applied to regulatE human behavior. Discipline broadly can be 1) DUE TO others & 2) DUE TO self discipline motivated by others IS BECAUSE OF a) fear, b) respect & c) love . it lasts till these 3 factors has ability to stimulate emotions, it is most likely to be for the short term as soon as one overcomes OR SATISFIES THESE emotions, it will vanisH. Self-discipline is about creating new habits of thought, feeling and action towards improving oneself. SELF-discipline is based on intentions. mastery over Self-discipline is mastery over emotions, leading towards earthly success & opening doors of spiritual path. SELF DISCIPLINE IS a NECTAR one must drink to attain nirvana.

IN REAL LIFE, ONE JUST RUNS FROM ONE MILESTONE TO ANOTHER WITHOUT ANY CONTENTMENT.  SUCCESS IN TODAY'S WORLD IS MORE OR LESS CONFINED TO THE MATERIALISTIC GOALS AND THAT MOMENTS LASTS FOR SHORT TIME BEFORE ONE MOVES BACK TO ANOTHER RACE FOR THE NEXT MILESTONE. DEEP DOWN WITHIN ONE IS ALWAYS SEEKING FOR HAPPINESS. BUT ONE DOES NOT FIND TRUE HAPPINESS IN ANY OF ITS ACHIEVEMENTS AS HAPPINESS IS CONFUSED WITH & MEASURED AGAINST SUCCESS & FAILURE. SUCCESS IS BASICALLY ACHIEVEMENT OF DESIRES, SET GOALS, EXPECTATIONS, ITS ALL ABOUT REACHING OUR TO WHAT ONE WANT. WHILE HAPPINESS IS  A BLISS BEYOND DESIRES & EXPECTATIONS. HAPPINESS IS CONTENTMENT OF WHAT ONE  HAS OR GETS WITHOUT ANY ATTACHMENT TO THE RESULTS . TRUE & PURE HAPPINESS IS IN DETACHMENT AND STILL EFFECTIVELY DEPLOYING OUR KARMA

HABIT IS TENDENCY, PRACTICE, PATTERN, ROUTINE, MANNER, CHARACTERISTICS, PECULIARITY, ECCENTRICITY, the process by which a HUMAN BEHAVIOUR , through regular repetition, becomes automatic or habitual, often goes unnoticed & HAPPENS SUBCONSCIOUSLY. psychology DEFINES HABIT a more or less fixed way of thinking, willing, or feeling acquired through previous repetition of a mental experience. a new habit usually takes 66 days And as much as 254 days until it's fully formed. ITS A CIRCLE OF BELIEF, BEHAVIOUR , HABITS CONTRIBUTING TO EACH OTHER AND CREATING AN UNIQUE CHARACTER. THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, ACTIONS ALL ARE INFLUENCED BY HABITS. SO WILL THE RESULTS. RIGHT HABITS WILL LEAD TO PATH OF SUCCESS & VICE VERSA. HABITS CAN MAKE OR BREAK THE FUTURE. NEW HABITS CAN BE REBUILD WITH CONSCIOUS INTENTIONS AND FOCUSED EFFORTS TO ACHIEVE DESIRED BEHAVIOR CHANGES.

SUCCESS AND FAILURES ARE BASED ON THE ACTIONS WE TAKE. NO ACTION - NO RESULTS. JUST BY THINKING IN MIND AND CREATING FEELINGS AROUND THE THOUGHTS DOES NOT LEAD TO ANY KIND OF RESULTS. IT MAY BE CONSIDERED AS A DAYDREAM OR KHAYALI PULAO OR WISH OR LACK OF IMPLEMENTATION OR INCAPABILITY OR TOO HIGH EXPECTATIONS OR TOO LOW INTENTIONS OR NO BURNING DESIRES OR NO PASSION OR LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE OR TARGETS WITHOUT DEFINITE ACTIONS. A PERFECT DAY, A COUNTABLE DAY, CAN'T BE EXPECT TO HAPPEN WITHOUT DEFINITE INTENDED PLANS, EVEN THE UNIVERSAL POWER CAN ONLY GET ATTRACTED TO MIND & BODY WHICH ARE AT HIGHER LEVELS, ONLY RIGHT INTENDED ACTIONS CAN TAKE MIND & BODY TO HIGHER LEVELS. EXECUTION IS THE KEY IN CREATING AN AWESOME DAY !!

FOR BREAKTHROUGH IN ANY SPIRITUAL OR WORLDLY ACTIVITIES 100% DEDICATION WITH TRUE HEART & SPIRIT ACTS AS A BUILDING BLOCKS , BE IT FOR A PERSON, RELATIONSHIP, FRIENDSHIP, WORK, RESEARCH, DISCUSSION, HUMAN ONE TO ONE INTERACTIONS, SPORTS, GOALS, TARGETS, DREAMS & REALITIES. DEDICATION IS SAMARPAN TO WHAT'S BEEN BELIEVED & HOW'S IT EXECUTED. SAMARPAN GIVES BIRTH TO SELFLESSNESS , WHICH LEADS TO HUMILITY, PASSION & COMPASSION TOWARDS KARMA. THESE ACTIVITIES NO LONGER REMAIN COMPULSION BUT BECOMES WAY OF LIFE. WITH TRUE & RIGHT  INTENTIONS , SAMARPAN CAN  LEAD TO BREAKTHROUGH IN ANY TASK OR ACTIVITY BECAUSE IT BUILDS JOY, LOVE, AFFINITY AROUND & LONGING FOR IT CONVERTS IT INTO BURNING DESIRE AND IT BECOMES PASSION. SOON LAW OF ATTRACTION STARTS PLAYING ITS ROLE BY BUILDING PATH LEADING TOWARDS BREAKTHROUGH - SUCCESS.

WHEN OUR MIND AND EGO OVER POWERS US WE SEE NOTHING BEYOND WHAT OUR M&E DESCRIBES US TO SEE. WE FAIL TO UNDERSTAND,  REALISE  AND ACKNOWLEDGE THE HARD REALITY. WE FAIL TO OBSERVE THINGS FROM OTHERS PERSPECTIVES. LIFE'S SUCCESS  & FAILURE TEACHES US A LOT BUT IF WE REMAIN IN BLAME MODE AND UNABLE TO DIGEST AND ACCEPT OUR OWN MISTAKES BY BLAMING OTHERS, WE RESTRICT OUR THINKING CAPACITY & CREATIVITY. ITS IMPORTANT TO REMAIN IN THE LEARNING & LISTENING MODE, KEEP MARCHING FORWARD BY KILLING THE STAGNATION.

AGE IS JUST A NUMBER, REFLECTING PHYSICAL STATE OF A PERSON. MENTAL AGE IS DEFINED BY THE PERSON'S STATE OF MIND & CAN BE MEASURED BY ONE'S ACTION OR BEHAVIOUR OR CONDUCT. ABC IS DIRECTLY LINKED TO THE THOUGHTS (T-F-A-R) & THINKING CAPABILITY. TC IMPROVES WITH AWARENESS & EXPERIENCE, RESULTING IN MATURE & STABLE THOUGHTS BASED ON LESSONS LEARNED FROM THE SUCCESS OR FAILURE OF THE TASKS OR RESPONSIBILITIES UNDERTAKEN & DELIVERED.  

OUR CONSCIOUS KNOW WHAT'S BEST FOR US AND ALWAYS SHOWS US THE RIGHT PATH, PATH TO SUCCESS. BUT OUR IGNORANT MIND DOES NOT ALLOW US TO SURRENDER, MAKES US TO DWELL IN SEARCH OF SO CALLED PERFECT PATH & PERFECT TIME. WITH THESE QUESTS IN MIND WE FAIL TO FOCUS ON PRESENT & FAIL TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR US. WHEN IGNORANT MIND & EGO JOIN HANDS, UNKNOWINGLY IT PREPARES US TOWARDS DARKNESS. BEST SOLUTION IS WE MUST LISTEN TO & ACT UPON OUR INNER VOICE.

WORRY IS ONE FORM OF FEAR, FEAR OF UNCERTAINTY, FEAR OF FUTURE, FEAR OF FAILURE, FEAR OF DISBELIEF IN ONESELF, LACK OF CONFIDENCE, GUILTY OF NOT GIVEN 100%, IN SHORT FEAR IS ROAD-MAP TO BE UNSUCCESSFUL. IF WE OBSERVE MINUTELY SUCCESS & FEAR CAN NOT GO HAND IN HAND. THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE THOSE WHO ARE FEARLESS. THINK WISELY AND ABANDON ALL WORRIES AND FEARS.

SUCCESS IS STEP BY STEP PROCESS AND IS BUILD ON THE LADDER OF FAILURES. CONSIDER EACH STEP TO BE  A STEPPING STONE AS IT BRINGS US CLOSE TO OUR GOALS. SUCCESS CAN'T HAPPEN OVERNIGHT, WE NEED TO BE PERSISTENT IN OUR ENDEAVOUR. THE ONLY WAY WE CAN KEEP MOVING IS BY KEEPING ALIVE THE FIRE WITHIN US, THE FIRE TO ACHIEVE NEWER HEIGHTS.