FOOD FOR THOUGHT

COMMITMENT IS GIVING OUT ALL 110% WITHOUT ANY SECOND THOUGHT, 110% PASSIONATE ABOUT THE COMMITMENT, DREAMS, GOALS, TARGETS. THIS HOLDS GOOD FOR ALL AREAS OF LIFE - WORK, RELATIONSHIP, SPIRITUALITY, AND HEALTH. COMMITMENT DEMANDS MOVING BEYOND ONE’S CAPACITY, BEYOND ONE’S IMAGINATION, BEYOND THOUGHTS – MIND - FEELING, BEYOND COMFORT ZONE. ONE CAN EITHER CHASE ONE'S DREAM ZONE OR CAN SIMPLY ENJOY THE COMFORT ZONE IN WHICH ONE IS LIVING. BOTH ZONES CAN'T CO-EXISTS. COMFORT ZONE IS SAFE, SECURE, CERTAIN WHILE DREAM ZONE IS UNSECURE, UNCERTAIN BUT PROMISES HIGH ENERGY, GROWTH, UNLIMITED POTENTIAL, UNLIMITED REWARDS. THE ONLY WAY TO SUSTAIN IN DREAM ZONE OR COMMITMENT ZONE IS BY BURNING BOATS MEANING BURNING COMFORT ZONE AND FOCUSING ON COMMITMENT ZONE.

WELL KNOWN ENEMIES OF HUMAN NATURE ARE EGO & ASSUMPTION. BOTH OF THEM BLIND EYES OF HUMAN AND DOES NOT ALLOW TO THINK BEYOND, TO THINK OF THE OTHER PERSPECTIVES OR ALTERNATIVES, KILLS THINKING POWER & CREATIVE MIND, NARROWING DOWN ONE'S ABILITIES, CREATING LIMITED BELIEFS. WITH LIMITED AWARENESS BREAKTHROUGH IS IMPOSSIBLE AND MAKING HUMAN TO THINK AROUND ONESELF. IN RELATIONSHIPS OR HUMAN INTERACTIONS SELF-CENTERED MIND KILLS FLEXIBILITY TO THINK ABOUT OTHERS, EGO & ASSUMPTION CREATES A WALL OF LIMITED COMMUNICATIONS OR EVEN NO COMMUNICATIONS. ONE CAN GET FREE FROM SUCH SITUATION BY ACCEPTING ONE'S AS WELL OTHER'S STRENGTHS & WEAKNESSES, BY GETTING RID OF EGO & ASSUMPTION AND BY ALLOWING BREAKTHROUGH - TRANSFORMATION FROM WITHIN. ACCEPTANCE OF THESE FACTS BRINGS DOWN THE WALLS AND ALLOWS EACH ONE TO GROW BY CREATING WIN-WIN SITUATION.

FOR BREAKTHROUGH IN ANY SPIRITUAL OR WORLDLY ACTIVITIES 100% DEDICATION WITH TRUE HEART & SPIRIT ACTS AS A BUILDING BLOCKS , BE IT FOR A PERSON, RELATIONSHIP, FRIENDSHIP, WORK, RESEARCH, DISCUSSION, HUMAN ONE TO ONE INTERACTIONS, SPORTS, GOALS, TARGETS, DREAMS & REALITIES. DEDICATION IS SAMARPAN TO WHAT'S BEEN BELIEVED & HOW'S IT EXECUTED. SAMARPAN GIVES BIRTH TO SELFLESSNESS , WHICH LEADS TO HUMILITY, PASSION & COMPASSION TOWARDS KARMA. THESE ACTIVITIES NO LONGER REMAIN COMPULSION BUT BECOMES WAY OF LIFE. WITH TRUE & RIGHT  INTENTIONS , SAMARPAN CAN  LEAD TO BREAKTHROUGH IN ANY TASK OR ACTIVITY BECAUSE IT BUILDS JOY, LOVE, AFFINITY AROUND & LONGING FOR IT CONVERTS IT INTO BURNING DESIRE AND IT BECOMES PASSION. SOON LAW OF ATTRACTION STARTS PLAYING ITS ROLE BY BUILDING PATH LEADING TOWARDS BREAKTHROUGH - SUCCESS.

THE CONFIDENCE AT WHICH ONE EXECUTES GIVEN TASK DEFINES ITS OUT COME. THIS CONFIDENCE GROWS WITH TRUST, TRUST ON ONESELF, TRUST ON GUT-FEELING, TRUST ON INTUITION, TRUST ON INNER VOICE, TRUST ON CONSCIOUS, TRUST ON ONE'S DECISIONS. TRUST IS BASED ON ONE'S RELATIONSHIP WITH ONESELF - ONE'S CONSCIOUS. THE DEEPER THE LOVE FOR ONESELF, THE DEEPER WOULD BE THE TRUST AND STRONGER WOULD BE DECISION POWER, ELIMINATING DEPENDENCE ON OTHERS APPROVAL ON ONE'S DECISION.

FEELING OF LOOSING SOMEONE IN ANY GIVEN SITUATION IS BASED OUT OF FEAR. FROM TIME TO TIME WE CREATE BONDS & CONNECTIONS WITH PEOPLE WHICH ALSO INCLUDES COLLEAGUES, FRIENDS & FAMILIES. SOME MAY LAST FOR LONG AND SOME MAY VANISH IN NOT TIME. BOTH ARE MEANT TO TEACH US LESSONS, MAY BE TO PURIFY OUR SOUL. IT'S IMMATERIAL HOW OTHERS PLAY THEIR PART, IT'S OF UTMOST IMPORTANCE TO HAVE GOOD FAITH & INTENTIONS, TO DO RIGHT THINGS, TO NURTURE IT WITH CARE & LOVE, TO REMAIN COMPASSIONATE, TO ADD VALUES, TO GROW TOGETHER, AND TO PLAY OUR PART 100% WITH OPEN ARMS & PURE HEART.

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.  VICTOR HUGO A study done by Harvard concluded that true happiness lies in fulfilled relationships . That's it. It's not about money, not about status, not about achievement !! Deven shared this study and his insight that relationships with mortals are subject to give and take, JUDGMENTS, biases, temporary happiness, mutual benefit... and more... as mortals... emotions are not constantly in a state of bliss, these relationships have ups and downs... like a roller coaster...   IT prompted me to think about  Relationship . Relationships are not confined to the process of “Give & Take”, I believe it is all about giving, sharing, that to without any expectations of returns - WIIFM . Just like in a True and Pure Friendship , Expectations does not exists and  Intentions is to give -- love, respect, joy, happiness, support -- and in re...