FOOD FOR THOUGHT

THERE ARE TWO WAYS TO LIVE AND LEAD LIFE. ONE IS TO LIVE & ENJOY LIFE FOR ONESELF AND AT THE MOST FOR ONE'S FAMILY, ANOTHER WAY IS TO LIVE FOR OTHERS. ONE IS SELF-CENTRIC AND ANOTHER IS SELF-LESS WAY OF LIVING. THE WORLD FOR SELF-CENTRIC LIFE IS LIMITED AND SO IS THE SELF-GROWTH, SELF-AWARENESS, SELF-EXPOSURE, SELF-EXPERIENCE... THE WORLD FOR SELF-LESS WAY IS LARGER THAN LIFE, IT'S A LARGE-ENERGY, LARGE-DOMAIN, LARGE-ENTHUSIASM, LARGER-CONTRIBUTION.... LARGER STATE OF LIVING. IN THIS STATE ONE EXPERIENCES ABUNDANCE, COMPASSION, HUMILITY, LOVE, GRACE, HAPPINESS, BLISS.... AT IT'S PEEK. THERE IS A LARGER PURPOSE IN SERVING OTHERS THAN LIVING SELF-CENTRIC LIFESTYLE. IT'S TRUE THAT EVERYTHING STARTS WITH SELF TO FAMILY BUT THAN ONE MUST GROW TO COMMUNITY TO SOCIETY TO COUNTRY TO WORLD TO UNIVERSE.

THE UNIVERSAL LAW IS THE MORE WE GIVE THE MORE WE WILL RECEIVE, FOR EXAMPLE SMILE, MONEY, RESPECT, LOVE, MORE WE SMILE....!! SAME HOLDS TRUE FOR ALL THE NEGATIVE TRAITS LIKE JEALOUSY, BITTERNESS, HATRED. WE NEED TO BE CAREFUL ON WHAT WE ARE SHARING KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY. BEFORE GIVING, IT'S ALSO IMPORTANT TO EARN IT, WE NEED TO EAR MONEY BEFORE WE GIVE, WE NEED TO BE RESPECT WORTHY BEFORE WE GET RESPECT, WE NEED TO GENUINELY SMILE BEFORE WE GET REAL SMILE, TO LOVE OTHERS WE NEED TO LOVE OURSELF FIRST.   WE CAN SHARE WHAT WE FEEL IS IN ABUNDANCE TO US. WE MUST SHARE WHAT WE POSSESS AND ADMIRE, AND THIS PROCESS OF SHARING WILL ALSO MAKE US AWARE OF TRUE HAPPINESS AND SENSE OF ACHIEVEMENT, MIRACLE, SATISFACTION, FULFILLMENT. GIVING AND RECEIVING WILL LEAD US TO THE STATE OF BLISSFULNESS.

WHAT ONE BELIEVES ABOUT ONESELF IS ONE'S REALITY. OUR BELIEF SYSTEM DEFINES OUR LIFE PATH. TO DO RIGHT THINGS AND TO ADD MAGIC & STARS IN LIFE PATH (STORY), ONE MUST WORK ON ONE'S BELIEFS STRATEGICALLY. ONE  MUST NURTURE IT WITH LOVE , WARMTH , PASSION , PEACE , COMPASSION , HUMILITY , HUMANITY , SPIRITUALITY , NEUTRALITY , RESPONSIBILITY , HONESTY , ENTHUSIASM , JUSTICE , NEETI , DHARMA , COURAGE , TRUST , ADVENTURE , RENUNCIATION , HARMONY , WHOLENESS , FOCUS , POWER , ABUNDANCE . IT'S A CONTINUOUS PROCESS TO WRITE, RE-WRITE, IMBIBE & REPLENISH BELIEFS WITH THESE SETS OF VALUES.

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.  VICTOR HUGO A study done by Harvard concluded that true happiness lies in fulfilled relationships . That's it. It's not about money, not about status, not about achievement !! Deven shared this study and his insight that relationships with mortals are subject to give and take, JUDGMENTS, biases, temporary happiness, mutual benefit... and more... as mortals... emotions are not constantly in a state of bliss, these relationships have ups and downs... like a roller coaster...   IT prompted me to think about  Relationship . Relationships are not confined to the process of “Give & Take”, I believe it is all about giving, sharing, that to without any expectations of returns - WIIFM . Just like in a True and Pure Friendship , Expectations does not exists and  Intentions is to give -- love, respect, joy, happiness, support -- and in re...

RAREST TRILOGY: NEW YEAR IS ENTERING WITH A UNIQUE PATTERN. WINTER HAS MOVED IN SILENTLY WITH MUCH DARKER MORNINGS, PLEASANT & COOL BREEZE AIR. SUMMER IS LITERALLY NOT ALLOWING DEEP DARKNESS TO SUSTAIN LONG ENOUGH AND TRYING TO KEEP UP WITH HEAT. MONSOON IS NOT WILLING TO TAKE ANY EXIT, WANTING TO PERMANENTLY CONTINUE ADDING SURPRISING FACTORS. THOUGH FOR MONSOON DUSSEHRA IS CONSIDERED TO BE FINAL FINAL EXIT. CONTINUATION OF MONSOON GIVES A FEELING THAT ALL MIGHTY IS CELEBRATING & ENJOYING DIWALI WITH ALL HIS FOLLOWERS. THIS COMBINATION OF VARSHA-SHARAD-HEMANT ~ TRILOGY IS RARE. HUMIDITY-HEAT-COLD ARE DOMINATING EACH OTHER, DEPICTING THE POWER OF NATURE AND UNIQUENESS IT CAN CREATE FROM TIME TO TIME.  TO EXPERIENCE ITS TRUE POWER, TO DRAW ENERGY, TO BE PART OF ABUNDANCE, TO REMAIN CONNECTED TO THE HIGHER SELF, ONE MUST ALIGN ONE'S SPIRIT, WILL & MIND TO THE INFINITE INTELLIGENCE. LET THIS UNIQUE TRILOGY BRING W-L-P IN OUR LIVES AND LEAD US TO OUR GREATER PURPO...