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OFTEN ONE GETS ATTACHED TO ONE'S SUCCESS, SO MUCH SO THAT THE SAME SUCCESS LIMITS ONE'S POTENTIAL AND BELIEFS. THERE COULD BE NUMBER OF REASONS BEHIND SUCH BEHAVIOR, WHICH COULD BE, LACK OF CONFIDENCE, OVER CONFIDENCE, FEAR OF FAILURE, LACK OF CREATIVITY, LACK OF CLARITY, OBSESSION OF ACHIEVEMENTS, LACK OF ENTHUSIASM. AFTER REACHING ONE MILESTONE, THERE IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE A FALL BEFORE REACHING OUT TO NEXT MILESTONE, ONE HAS TO RECOGNIZE AND UTILIZE THIS FALL CORRECTLY AND ENCASE OUT OF IT FOR THE NEXT MILESTONE. IF ONE IS AFRAID TO RECOGNIZE FALL AND PRESUMES TO REMAIN IN THAT OLD ZONE, WILL MISS OUT THE GREAT AT THE COST OF GOOD. ONE HAS TO LET GO CURRENT STATE EVEN IF ITS GOOD, TO REACH OUT TO NEXT LEVEL OF STATE FOR ACHIEVING GREAT. CHANGE IS INEVITABLE, ONE HAS TO KEEP  ON LEARNING - RELEARNING DURING THE FALL AND PREPARE FOR THE NEXT PEEK. THIS IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS, THERE IS NO HALT, THERE IS NO STAGNATION, LIFE MEANS GROWTH, LIFE MEANS PROGRESS AND PROGRESS MEANS H...

THERE IS A DEEP ART INVOLVE IN FEELING THE FEAR AND SCIENCE IN FACING IT. ART IN THE SENSE ONE NEEDS TO LOOK & DIVE DEEP INTO THE FEAR, TOUCH AND SENSE WHAT IT HAS TO OFFER, SEE AND FEEL EACH SIDE OF FEAR, GET HORRIFIED BY FEAR, MAKE FEAR TERRIFIED,  PLAY GAMES WITH FEAR, SCIENCE IN THE SENSE ONE NEEDS TO BE FRIEND WITH FEAR, LOVE IT SO MUCH SO THAT IT DOES NOT ANYMORE REMAIN SOURCE OF FEAR, BREAK THE PATTERN, CONFUSE THE FEAR  AND DO WHAT EVER IT TAKES TO BREAK THE BOUNDARY AND JUMP ON THE OTHER SIDE OF FEAR. JUST DO IT !!

ONE HAS NO POWER TO CHANGE PAST OR PREDICT FUTURE. BY LIVING IN PAST OR FUTURE ONE SHATTERS SELF-CONFIDENCE, COMPROMISES PRESENT, UNABLE TO GIVE JUSTICE TO THE PRESENT TIME AND ULTIMATELY JEOPARDISES PRESENT. ONE MUST NOT REGRET PAST, IN FACT ONE MUST MOVE FORWARD AND CHERISH LESSONS LEARNED. ONE MUST NOT FEAR FUTURE AS IT MIGHT BECOME REALITY, IN FACT ONE MUST PLAN THE FUTURE AND BUILD IT TO REALITY. ONE MUST LIVE IN PRESENT BY KEEPING IN MIND LESSONS LEARNED FROM PAST AND TO BUILD BETTER FUTURE. PRESENT IS A BRIDGE BETWEEN PAST & FUTURE, ONE MUST DRIVE ON THIS BRIDGE HAPPILY BY ENJOYING EACH MOMENTS, THERE IS NO WAY BACK AND THERE IS NO SHORTCUT TO WAY AHEAD, ONE NEEDS TO MOVE FORWARD WITH PEACE OF MIND.

AMBITION IS ABOUT THINKING BIG AND BEYOND REACH, ONLY FEAR CAN SHATTER IT DOWN. GOAL IS ABOUT TAKING ACTIONS TO MOVE TOWARDS AMBITION, ONLY LAZINESS CAN RUIN IT DOWN. CHOICE IS WHETHER TO DREAM BIG & ALLOW INACTION TO RUIN IT OR FEARLESS ACTIONS TO GIVE  LAGER PICTURE. CONQUERING FEAR & LAZINESS ARE FIRST LESSONS FOR MASTERING ART OF SELF-DISCIPLINE AND ARE FIRST STEP TOWARDS ANY ACHIEVEMENTS. WE MUST CONSTANTLY REMAIN AWARE OF WHAT WE MESS WITH OR RATHER WHAT WE DEAL WITH.  LET'S NOT EMPOWER FEAR AND LAZINESS OVER OUR DREAMS.

ONE CAN EITHER LIVE ENTIRE LIFE WITH FEAR OR ONE CAN BREAK AWAY ALL THE FEARS AND LIVE  FEAR FREE LIFE. BOTH CHOICES ARE CHALLENGING, BOTH CHOICES WILL BRING IN NEW EXPERIENCES EACH DAY, BUT IT DEPENDS WHAT KIND OF LIFE ONE WANTS TO LEAD, FEARFUL IMPOTENT LIFE OR FEARLESS PREROGATIVE LIFE. IF WE DON'T FACE OUR FEARS IT BECOMES BARRIER TO PROGRESS IN THAT DIRECTION. IT IS ADVISABLE TO FACE ALL FEARS WITH OPEN HEART AS WE HAVE NOTHING TO LOOSE, ONCE WE OVERCOME FEARS OR MAKE FRIEND WITH FEAR WE CAN TRULY ENJOY AND EXPERIENCE THE OTHER BRIGHT SIDE ONE ALWAYS DESIRED. THE BIGGEST LESSON ONE CAN LEARN BY BREAKING FEARS IS THAT NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE IN LIFE AND A REASON TO ENJOY PRIVILEGED LIFE.

Discipline  is SET OF EXPECTATION, action or inaction applied to regulatE human behavior. Discipline broadly can be 1) DUE TO others & 2) DUE TO self discipline motivated by others IS BECAUSE OF a) fear, b) respect & c) love . it lasts till these 3 factors has ability to stimulate emotions, it is most likely to be for the short term as soon as one overcomes OR SATISFIES THESE emotions, it will vanisH. Self-discipline is about creating new habits of thought, feeling and action towards improving oneself. SELF-discipline is based on intentions. mastery over Self-discipline is mastery over emotions, leading towards earthly success & opening doors of spiritual path. SELF DISCIPLINE IS a NECTAR one must drink to attain nirvana.

EVERYONE IS BORN WITH A SPECIAL GIFT WHICH MAKES US  UNIQUE . BUT OUR MIND ALWAYS COMPARES THIS GIFT AND IGNORES THE INNER VOICE. SURROUNDS ONESELF WITH  FEAR, ANXIETY AND MIND FREAKS , PREFERS OTHERS APPROVAL AND LOOSES THE SELF CONFIDENCE. ONLY WAY OUT IS BY RE-BUILDING  TRUST  FOR ONESELF, BELIEVING IN THE INNER VOICE, START  LIKING  &  LOVING  ONESELF, ELIMINATING MIND FREAKS, FEARS & ANXIETIES. FINALLY  TRANSFORMING  ONESELF BY BRINGING OUT FROM WITHIN  THE UNIQUENESS & THE TRUE POTENTIAL  !!

FEELING OF LOOSING SOMEONE IN ANY GIVEN SITUATION IS BASED OUT OF FEAR. FROM TIME TO TIME WE CREATE BONDS & CONNECTIONS WITH PEOPLE WHICH ALSO INCLUDES COLLEAGUES, FRIENDS & FAMILIES. SOME MAY LAST FOR LONG AND SOME MAY VANISH IN NOT TIME. BOTH ARE MEANT TO TEACH US LESSONS, MAY BE TO PURIFY OUR SOUL. IT'S IMMATERIAL HOW OTHERS PLAY THEIR PART, IT'S OF UTMOST IMPORTANCE TO HAVE GOOD FAITH & INTENTIONS, TO DO RIGHT THINGS, TO NURTURE IT WITH CARE & LOVE, TO REMAIN COMPASSIONATE, TO ADD VALUES, TO GROW TOGETHER, AND TO PLAY OUR PART 100% WITH OPEN ARMS & PURE HEART.

WORRY IS ONE FORM OF FEAR, FEAR OF UNCERTAINTY, FEAR OF FUTURE, FEAR OF FAILURE, FEAR OF DISBELIEF IN ONESELF, LACK OF CONFIDENCE, GUILTY OF NOT GIVEN 100%, IN SHORT FEAR IS ROAD-MAP TO BE UNSUCCESSFUL. IF WE OBSERVE MINUTELY SUCCESS & FEAR CAN NOT GO HAND IN HAND. THE MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE ARE THOSE WHO ARE FEARLESS. THINK WISELY AND ABANDON ALL WORRIES AND FEARS.