FOOD FOR THOUGHT

LIVING LIFE FOR OTHERS GIVES HIGHEST FORM OF INNER SATISFACTION, MENTAL PEACE AND SPIRITUAL UPLIFTMENT. THE MORE WE DEDICATE OUR LIFE TO HELP PEOPLE THE MORE WE SIMPLIFY OURSELVES, GIVING LARGER MEANING & PURPOSE TO LIFE. ONE THINKS BEYOND SELF-NEEDS AND TRANSITS FROM SELF-CENTERED TO SELF-LESS WAY OF LIFE, THERE ARE NO SECOND THOUGHTS, THERE ARE NO IFS AND BUTS, THERE ARE NO QUESTIONS. THIS WAY OF LIFE BRINGS TRUE JOY, HAPPINESS, BLISS, BLESSINGS, LOVE, GRACE, BREAKING ALL BARRIERS AND ALL VICIOUS CIRCLES OF LIFE, GIVING DIRECTION TO ONE'S SOUL JOURNEY AND INSPIRING OTHERS TO FOLLOW THE PATH. ONE RECEIVES EVERYTHING IN LIFE, AND THE FACT REMAINS THAT IN THIS STATE,  GIVING IS EVERYTHING.

BOTTOM LINE IS TO REMAIN HAPPY IN ANY GIVEN SITUATION AND NOT TO BE BOTHERED BY THE SURROUNDING SITUATIONS, WITH UPS & DOWNS, WITH SUMMER & WINTER OF LIFE. WHEN WE ARE HAPPY TIME FLIES, WE REMAIN WITHIN OURSELVES, WITHIN OUR WORLD, EXTERNAL CIRCUMSTANCES HAS NO ABILITY TO AFFECT US. HAPPINESS CREATES A CIRCLE OF BLISS MAKING POSITIVITY TO THRIVE BY CONTINUOUSLY KILLING ALL EXTERNAL NEGATIVITY.   WE LIVE IN AN ECSTASY, AN EUPHORIA, AN EXULTATION,  AN ENVIRONMENT OF HAPPINESS. HAPPINESS IS  PROGRESS, HAPPINESS IS WAY OF LIFE.

ONE MUST KEEP SEARCHING FOR THE SOLUTION TO UPLIFT ONESELF AS WELL AS HUMANITY, BEFORE MOVING TO NEXT LEVEL. THIS SEARCH IS INSIDE AND NOT OUTSIDE & IT IS NOT FOR MATERIALISTIC DESIRE OR EARTHLY ACHIEVEMENT.  SEARCH IS FOR THE TRUE SELF, FOR THE PASSION, FOR THE LOVE, FOR THE BLISS, FOR SOUL URGE, FOR SPIRITUAL EXHILARATION.  ONE MUST KEEP LOOKING DEEP WITHIN TILL ITS FOUND IN TRUE SENSE, WITH BIGGER CAUSE, eMBARRASSED WITH HUMILITY & COMPASSION. SEARCH IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS TO PROGRESS TO ATTAIN NIRVANA .

ONE HAS TO JUST KEEP SIMPLY SMILING AT ANY GIVEN SITUATION AND ALLOW IT TO PASS HAPPILY. THIS IS VERY SIMPLIFIED WAY OF LIFE BUT OUR MIND COMPLICATES IT BY SEARCHING HAPPINESS EXTERNALLY, FROM MATERIAL POSSESSIONS, SLOWLY CREATING SERIES OF DISSATISFACTION AND CONFUSION, HIDING THE UNDERLYING FACT THAT HAPPINESS CAN NOT BE BROUGHT FROM OUTSIDE OR CAN NOT BE STEALED FROM SOMEWHERE. ONE MUST SURRENDER TO ONESELF AND DIVE DEEP WITHIN, ONE MUST ACCEPT UNDERLYING FACTS OF LIFE AND MUST CHOOSE BLISS OF HAPPINESS.

IN REAL LIFE, ONE JUST RUNS FROM ONE MILESTONE TO ANOTHER WITHOUT ANY CONTENTMENT.  SUCCESS IN TODAY'S WORLD IS MORE OR LESS CONFINED TO THE MATERIALISTIC GOALS AND THAT MOMENTS LASTS FOR SHORT TIME BEFORE ONE MOVES BACK TO ANOTHER RACE FOR THE NEXT MILESTONE. DEEP DOWN WITHIN ONE IS ALWAYS SEEKING FOR HAPPINESS. BUT ONE DOES NOT FIND TRUE HAPPINESS IN ANY OF ITS ACHIEVEMENTS AS HAPPINESS IS CONFUSED WITH & MEASURED AGAINST SUCCESS & FAILURE. SUCCESS IS BASICALLY ACHIEVEMENT OF DESIRES, SET GOALS, EXPECTATIONS, ITS ALL ABOUT REACHING OUR TO WHAT ONE WANT. WHILE HAPPINESS IS  A BLISS BEYOND DESIRES & EXPECTATIONS. HAPPINESS IS CONTENTMENT OF WHAT ONE  HAS OR GETS WITHOUT ANY ATTACHMENT TO THE RESULTS . TRUE & PURE HAPPINESS IS IN DETACHMENT AND STILL EFFECTIVELY DEPLOYING OUR KARMA

WE ALWAYS SEEK HAPPINESS FROM MATERIALISTIC LOVE & MATERIALISM BECOMES WAY OF LIFE. SURPRISINGLY THERE IS NO END TO POSSESSION SICKNESS AS IT INJECTS DOSE OF SHORT-LASTING EUPHORIA, PARALYSING SIXTH SENSE AND SUCCESSFULLY BARRING THE TASTE OF ETERNAL BLISS. IT'S BETTER TO STRIVE DEEP WITHIN FOR TRUE LOVE, LOVE FOR OUR BODY, LOVE FOR OURSELVES, LOVE FOR THE SOUL & LOVE FOR THE SOUL'S SOUL, INDUCING TRUE HAPPINESS & PLANTING SEEDS OF ETERNAL BLISS.

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.  VICTOR HUGO A study done by Harvard concluded that true happiness lies in fulfilled relationships . That's it. It's not about money, not about status, not about achievement !! Deven shared this study and his insight that relationships with mortals are subject to give and take, JUDGMENTS, biases, temporary happiness, mutual benefit... and more... as mortals... emotions are not constantly in a state of bliss, these relationships have ups and downs... like a roller coaster...   IT prompted me to think about  Relationship . Relationships are not confined to the process of “Give & Take”, I believe it is all about giving, sharing, that to without any expectations of returns - WIIFM . Just like in a True and Pure Friendship , Expectations does not exists and  Intentions is to give -- love, respect, joy, happiness, support -- and in re...