FOOD FOR THOUGHT

SUCCESS & FAILURE BOTH ARE THE OUTCOME OR RESULT OF THE ACTIONS TAKEN. BOTH OUTCOME IS A CONTINUOUS PROCESS AND MUST NOT BE CONNECTED TO EGO OR INDIVIDUALITY. ATTACHMENT TO THESE OUTCOMES CONSTANTLY KEEPS US TO LIVE IN PAST RATHER THAN IN THE FUTURE. SUCCESS & FAILURE ARE OCCURRENCE HAPPENING CONTINUOUSLY WITH CONTINUOUS ACTIONS. THESE ARE SET OF LESSONS TEACHING US TO MOVE FORWARD AND IMPROVE FROM TIME TO TIME FOR BETTER OUTCOMES. IT SHOULD NOT MATTER WHETHER IT HAS POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE CHARGES, IT SHOULD NOT AFFECT ONE'S BELIEFS IN ANYWAYS. ONE MUST REMAIN NEUTRAL SPECIALLY TO FAILURES, CONVERTING THESE  FAILURES DRIVING FORCE TO ACHIEVE BETTER.

WELL KNOWN ENEMIES OF HUMAN NATURE ARE EGO & ASSUMPTION. BOTH OF THEM BLIND EYES OF HUMAN AND DOES NOT ALLOW TO THINK BEYOND, TO THINK OF THE OTHER PERSPECTIVES OR ALTERNATIVES, KILLS THINKING POWER & CREATIVE MIND, NARROWING DOWN ONE'S ABILITIES, CREATING LIMITED BELIEFS. WITH LIMITED AWARENESS BREAKTHROUGH IS IMPOSSIBLE AND MAKING HUMAN TO THINK AROUND ONESELF. IN RELATIONSHIPS OR HUMAN INTERACTIONS SELF-CENTERED MIND KILLS FLEXIBILITY TO THINK ABOUT OTHERS, EGO & ASSUMPTION CREATES A WALL OF LIMITED COMMUNICATIONS OR EVEN NO COMMUNICATIONS. ONE CAN GET FREE FROM SUCH SITUATION BY ACCEPTING ONE'S AS WELL OTHER'S STRENGTHS & WEAKNESSES, BY GETTING RID OF EGO & ASSUMPTION AND BY ALLOWING BREAKTHROUGH - TRANSFORMATION FROM WITHIN. ACCEPTANCE OF THESE FACTS BRINGS DOWN THE WALLS AND ALLOWS EACH ONE TO GROW BY CREATING WIN-WIN SITUATION.

LEADERSHIP IS NEVER ABOUT IMPOSING DECISIONS, IT'S ALL ABOUT MANAGING & EMPOWERING PEOPLE. ALLOWING PEOPLE TO GROW, GIVING FREEDOM, CREATING ENVIRONMENT FOR CREATIVITY TO FLOURISH .  LEADERS VIEW OR OPINION IS JUST ANOTHER PROSPECTIVE , A VIEW POINT. LEADERSHIP MUST BE FLEXIBLE AND FREE FROM EGO AND SELF-CENTERED BEHAVIOR. LEADERSHIP ALWAYS ACTS AS A SUPPORT SYSTEM AND LEADS A TEAM TOWARDS GROWTH & SUCCESS. TRUE LEADERSHIP SEES THINGS BEYOND OBVIOUS AND ITS ALWAYS FUTURISTIC.

IN RAT RACE WE RUN AFTER POSSESSIONS ONE AFTER THE ANOTHER.  OUR EGO ALWAYS PUSHES US TO AMASS MATERIALS TO SEEK PEACE OUT OF THE SAME. HONESTLY THIS PEACE IS TEMPORARY AND CREATES RESTLESSNESS TO POSSESS SOMETHING SUPERIOR IN SEARCH OF PEACE. WE BECOME PART OF VICIOUS CIRCLE. ON THE CONTRARY, SPIRITUAL PATH MAKES US TO DIVE DEEP WITHIN TO SEEK  PEACE & HAPPINESS , OUR SPIRIT IS DRIVING US TOWARDS INNER SELF WHILE OUR EGO IS DRIVING US TOWARDS EXTERNAL WORLD. THE TRUTH IS EXTERNAL WORLD CAN NEVER BRING PEACE WITHIN, ON SPIRITUAL PATH WHEN WE DISCOVER PEACE WITHIN, UNIVERSE TAKES CARE OF THE EXTERNAL WORLD & EVERYTHING FALLS INTO RIGHT PLACE.  

WHEN OUR MIND AND EGO OVER POWERS US WE SEE NOTHING BEYOND WHAT OUR M&E DESCRIBES US TO SEE. WE FAIL TO UNDERSTAND,  REALISE  AND ACKNOWLEDGE THE HARD REALITY. WE FAIL TO OBSERVE THINGS FROM OTHERS PERSPECTIVES. LIFE'S SUCCESS  & FAILURE TEACHES US A LOT BUT IF WE REMAIN IN BLAME MODE AND UNABLE TO DIGEST AND ACCEPT OUR OWN MISTAKES BY BLAMING OTHERS, WE RESTRICT OUR THINKING CAPACITY & CREATIVITY. ITS IMPORTANT TO REMAIN IN THE LEARNING & LISTENING MODE, KEEP MARCHING FORWARD BY KILLING THE STAGNATION.

our conscious knows the right ways for us, but our mind overpowers & ignores our inner voice.  our ego does not allow us to be agile & to pursue different perspective of our surroundings and life in general. it's important to build trust & friendship with our consciousness which gives space for love to grow. pure love for consciousness is true succumb to conscious - to soul - to universe - to ultimate. ATTRACTING universe wayS FOR LIFE, our way no longer exists. the universe is the way !!

ONE MUST NOT GET ENTANGLE EMOTIONALLY TO EVERYTHING EVERY-TIME. ONE MAY HAVE TO BECOME PRACTICAL FOR PEACE OF MIND. DON'T LET OUR THOUGHT AND PEOPLE OVER POWER US. SOMETIMES BEST SOLUTION IS TO LET GO OF THINGS & DON'T ALLOW EGO TO PLAY AROUND. EMOTIONS ARE INHERENT TO HUMAN ATTRIBUTE AND THEY SHOW UP NATURALLY. IT IS OF UTMOST IMPORTANCE THAT WHERE AND WHEN DO WE ALLOW IT TO SHOW UP OUTSIDE. ONE HAS TO PRACTICE TO CHANNELISE EMOTIONS, CONVERT & UTILISE IT IN OTHER AREA OR FORM. SMARTNESS IS NOT IN REACTING EMOTIONALLY BUT IN REFRAINING, LOGICALLY ANALYSING, AND THEN DOING RIGHT THINGS.

OUR CONSCIOUS KNOW WHAT'S BEST FOR US AND ALWAYS SHOWS US THE RIGHT PATH, PATH TO SUCCESS. BUT OUR IGNORANT MIND DOES NOT ALLOW US TO SURRENDER, MAKES US TO DWELL IN SEARCH OF SO CALLED PERFECT PATH & PERFECT TIME. WITH THESE QUESTS IN MIND WE FAIL TO FOCUS ON PRESENT & FAIL TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR US. WHEN IGNORANT MIND & EGO JOIN HANDS, UNKNOWINGLY IT PREPARES US TOWARDS DARKNESS. BEST SOLUTION IS WE MUST LISTEN TO & ACT UPON OUR INNER VOICE.

OUR CONSCIOUS KNOWS IT ALL AND UNDERSTANDS THE HARDCORE REALITY. FROM TIME TO TIME IT GIVES US SIGNALS, DIRECTIONS & SHOWS US THE RIGHT PATH. BUT OUR MIND ALONG WITH SO CALLED EGO OVER POWERS, BLINDING US FROM THE REALITY, MAKING US BELIEVE WHICH IS NOT SATYA, JUSTICE, NEETI & DHARMA, DRIVING OUR LIFE PATH AWAY FROM THE LAWS OF NATURE. WHAT WE BELIEVE WILL DECIDE OUR FATE !!