FOOD FOR THOUGHT

DO KARMAS WITH RIGHT INTENTIONS AND RESULTS WILL FOLLOW. IT'S IMPORTANT TO NOT TO KEEP EXPECTATIONS OF RESULTS AS ONE DOES NOT HAVE ANY CONTROL OVER IT. IF ONE TAKES RIGHT AND TIMELY ACTIONS IN THE RIGHT DIRECTIONS THERE IS NO LOOKING BACK. EACH ACTIONS MATTERS AS IT MOVES STEP BY STEP TOWARDS THE DECIDED PATH. ONE MUST MANAGE ACTIONS AS ACTIONS GENERATES ENERGIES, ACTIONS SHAPES MIND IMAGES, ACTIONS CHASES DREAMS, ACTIONS CREATES MOMENTUM, ACTIONS BREAKS THE BARRIERS, ACTIONS ATTRACTS PERSISTENCE, ACTIONS BEGINS REACTIONS, ACTIONS DEFINES OUTCOME, ACTIONS ESCORTS RESULTS, ACTIONS LEADS SUCCESS, ACTIONS BUILDS FUTURE.

EXTRA MILE IN LITERAL SENSE MEANS TO STRETCH OURSELVES, TO DO MORE THAN ONE IS REQUIRED TO DO, TO OFFER MORE THAN WHAT IS PROMISED, IT CAN BE IN ANY FORM SERVICE, GOODS, GIFTS ETC. THERE ARE NO TRAFFIC JAMS AS EVERYONE LIKES TO RECEIVE SOMETHING EXTRA, ONE MUST ALSO LIKE TO DELIVER SOMETHING EXTRA. EXTRA MILE IS ALL ABOUT GIVING, GIVING WILLINGLY, GIVING WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN GIVING SELFLESSLY, GIVING HAPPILY, GIVING WITH OPEN HEART AND TOUCHING OTHERS HEARTS.   NISWARTH IS THE BASE TO REACH OUT TO OTHERS, GOING EXTRA MILE, NISWARTH GIVING IS THE FOUNDATION OF KINDNESS, HUMILITY, LOVE AND COMPASSION TO SERVE THE HUMANITY.

Discipline  is SET OF EXPECTATION, action or inaction applied to regulatE human behavior. Discipline broadly can be 1) DUE TO others & 2) DUE TO self discipline motivated by others IS BECAUSE OF a) fear, b) respect & c) love . it lasts till these 3 factors has ability to stimulate emotions, it is most likely to be for the short term as soon as one overcomes OR SATISFIES THESE emotions, it will vanisH. Self-discipline is about creating new habits of thought, feeling and action towards improving oneself. SELF-discipline is based on intentions. mastery over Self-discipline is mastery over emotions, leading towards earthly success & opening doors of spiritual path. SELF DISCIPLINE IS a NECTAR one must drink to attain nirvana.

NEITHER ONE CAN BUY HAPPINESS NOR CAN BORROW, HAPPINESS IS WITHIN AND NEEDS TO BE REALISED. DEEP WITHIN HAPPINESS IS INTEGRAL PART OF HUMAN NATURE BUT OVER PERIOD RIGHT FROM THE CHILDHOOD AND IT'S CAMOUFLAGED BY THE LAYERS OF MATERIALISM. WE CAN REALISE HAPPINESS BY ACTING UPON THESE LAYERS, BY BREAKING ONE AFTER ANOTHER. BY LEAVING PATH OF DISCONTENTMENT, EXPECTATIONS, DESIRES AND MOVING TOWARDS PATH OF CONTENTMENT, INTENTIONS, DETACHMENTS. ANY ACTION IN THIS DIRECTION WILL LEAD TO HAPPINESS.

IN REAL LIFE, ONE JUST RUNS FROM ONE MILESTONE TO ANOTHER WITHOUT ANY CONTENTMENT.  SUCCESS IN TODAY'S WORLD IS MORE OR LESS CONFINED TO THE MATERIALISTIC GOALS AND THAT MOMENTS LASTS FOR SHORT TIME BEFORE ONE MOVES BACK TO ANOTHER RACE FOR THE NEXT MILESTONE. DEEP DOWN WITHIN ONE IS ALWAYS SEEKING FOR HAPPINESS. BUT ONE DOES NOT FIND TRUE HAPPINESS IN ANY OF ITS ACHIEVEMENTS AS HAPPINESS IS CONFUSED WITH & MEASURED AGAINST SUCCESS & FAILURE. SUCCESS IS BASICALLY ACHIEVEMENT OF DESIRES, SET GOALS, EXPECTATIONS, ITS ALL ABOUT REACHING OUR TO WHAT ONE WANT. WHILE HAPPINESS IS  A BLISS BEYOND DESIRES & EXPECTATIONS. HAPPINESS IS CONTENTMENT OF WHAT ONE  HAS OR GETS WITHOUT ANY ATTACHMENT TO THE RESULTS . TRUE & PURE HAPPINESS IS IN DETACHMENT AND STILL EFFECTIVELY DEPLOYING OUR KARMA

SUCCESS AND FAILURES ARE BASED ON THE ACTIONS WE TAKE. NO ACTION - NO RESULTS. JUST BY THINKING IN MIND AND CREATING FEELINGS AROUND THE THOUGHTS DOES NOT LEAD TO ANY KIND OF RESULTS. IT MAY BE CONSIDERED AS A DAYDREAM OR KHAYALI PULAO OR WISH OR LACK OF IMPLEMENTATION OR INCAPABILITY OR TOO HIGH EXPECTATIONS OR TOO LOW INTENTIONS OR NO BURNING DESIRES OR NO PASSION OR LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE OR TARGETS WITHOUT DEFINITE ACTIONS. A PERFECT DAY, A COUNTABLE DAY, CAN'T BE EXPECT TO HAPPEN WITHOUT DEFINITE INTENDED PLANS, EVEN THE UNIVERSAL POWER CAN ONLY GET ATTRACTED TO MIND & BODY WHICH ARE AT HIGHER LEVELS, ONLY RIGHT INTENDED ACTIONS CAN TAKE MIND & BODY TO HIGHER LEVELS. EXECUTION IS THE KEY IN CREATING AN AWESOME DAY !!

MISERY ACT AS MYSTERY FOR HUMAN MIND. FIRST HUMAN MIND CREATES EAGERNESS FOR THE POSSESSION OF WORLDLY MATERIALS, THAN BUILDS EXPECTATIONS AROUND IT, LATER PARTICIPATES IN RAT RACE, ONCE IN POSSESSION LOSSES INTEREST AND CREATES ANOTHER EXPECTATION, IF UNABLE TO POSSESS THAN GIVES BIRTH TO DISSATISFACTION. THIS BECOMES A NEVER ENDING VICIOUS CIRCLE WITH HANGING LOOPS OF DISSATISFIED DESIRES. THIS LONGING CLUELESS MIND REMAINS ENTANGLED & SURROUNDS IT WITH EXPECTATIONS LEADING TO ENIGMA.

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.  VICTOR HUGO A study done by Harvard concluded that true happiness lies in fulfilled relationships . That's it. It's not about money, not about status, not about achievement !! Deven shared this study and his insight that relationships with mortals are subject to give and take, JUDGMENTS, biases, temporary happiness, mutual benefit... and more... as mortals... emotions are not constantly in a state of bliss, these relationships have ups and downs... like a roller coaster...   IT prompted me to think about  Relationship . Relationships are not confined to the process of “Give & Take”, I believe it is all about giving, sharing, that to without any expectations of returns - WIIFM . Just like in a True and Pure Friendship , Expectations does not exists and  Intentions is to give -- love, respect, joy, happiness, support -- and in re...