FOOD FOR THOUGHT

PARADIGM IS THE PATTERN, THE PATTERN TO THINK, TO ACT & TO REACT, TO BEHAVE, THE PATTERN WHICH REFLECTS ALL EMOTIONS, PATTERN WHICH OVERPOWERS MIND, SUBLIME MIND, CONSCIOUS & SUBCONSCIOUS MIND, PATTERN TO SUCCESS & FAILURE. PARADIGM IS A PATTERN IN WHICH ONE LIVES LIFE. ANY CHANGE IN ONE AREA, CAN INFLUENCE ENTIRE PATTERN AND ULTIMATELY THE WAY OF LIFE. CHANGE ACTS AS A CATALYST AND ACTS IN MULTIPLE FOLDS, IT'S A CHAIN REACTION. PATTERN CHANGE CAN BE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE, ONE CAN SEE BOTH SUCH PATTERNS IN ALL WALKS OF LIFE.  PATTERNS PARTLY OR FULLY CAN BE ERASED, RE-WRITTEN & MODIFIED.  QUESTION IS HOW TO CHANGE PARADIGM? WHAT'S THE PROCESS? ANSWER IS PARADIGM IS NOTHING BUT PATTERNS OF BELIEF SYSTEM BEEN REINFORCED IN CONSCIOUS AND SUBCONSCIOUS MIND. EVEN A SMALL CHANGE IN BELIEFS CAN LEAD TO ENORMOUS CHANGE IN PARADIGM AND THE PERSON AS A WHOLE.

WE CAN ONLY RECEIVE WHAT WE GIVE, BE A GIVER AND SHARE  WHAT WE ALWAYS WANT TO RECEIVE. WHAT WE SHARE WITH OTHERS ALWAYS MULTIPLIES IN ONE FORM OR ANOTHER. THIS HOLDS GOOD FOR WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE, MONEY AND EMOTIONS, POSITIVE AS WELL AS NEGATIVE EMOTIONS. EMOTIONS LIKE LOVE, RESPECT, HAPPINESS, HATE, ANGER ........ WHAT WE GIVE OR SHARE SPREADS ACROSS IN FORM OF ENERGY, SLOWLY WE LIVE BY VIBRATIONS OF THAT ENERGY, THESE VIBRATIONS GROWS AND ATTRACTS VIBRATIONS OF SIMILAR NATURE. HAPPINESS WILL ATTRACT HAPPINESS AND HATE WILL ATTRACT HATE, SHARING LOVE WILL ATTRACT VIBRATIONS WHICH NEEDS OR GIVES LOVE. LIVE BY THE VIBRATIONS WHICH OUR SOUL URGES US TO GROW.

THERE ARE 4 WAYS TO CHANGE STATE, 1.MENTAL 2.EMOTIONAL 3.PHYSICAL & 4.SPIRITUAL. OUT OF FOUR, THE MOST INSTANT WAY TO CHANGE ONE'S STATE IS PHYSICAL. OUR PHYSIOLOGY, OUR EXPRESSIONS, OUR GESTURES DEFINES US. JOY, LAUGHTER, SMILE ON OUR FACE MAKES US HAPPY. ANY PHYSICAL GAME ENERGIZES US FROM WITHIN. ANY ACTION CONNECTED TO OUR BODY HAS DIRECT IMPACT ON OUR EMOTIONS AND VICE VERSA. ACTIONS CAN BE POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE AND SO WILL BE EMOTIONS. IF WE CRY FROM OUTSIDE WE WILL FEEL SADDENED FROM WITHIN. TO BE HAPPY, LOVING, ENERGETIC, FUNNY, ENTHUSIASTIC, ONE NEED TO JUST ACT TO ACHIEVE THE DESIRED STATE.  

Discipline  is SET OF EXPECTATION, action or inaction applied to regulatE human behavior. Discipline broadly can be 1) DUE TO others & 2) DUE TO self discipline motivated by others IS BECAUSE OF a) fear, b) respect & c) love . it lasts till these 3 factors has ability to stimulate emotions, it is most likely to be for the short term as soon as one overcomes OR SATISFIES THESE emotions, it will vanisH. Self-discipline is about creating new habits of thought, feeling and action towards improving oneself. SELF-discipline is based on intentions. mastery over Self-discipline is mastery over emotions, leading towards earthly success & opening doors of spiritual path. SELF DISCIPLINE IS a NECTAR one must drink to attain nirvana.

SIMPLICITY IS NEUTRALITY. IT DOES NOT PROVOKE ANY NEGATIVE EMOTIONS WITHIN & IN OTHERS MIND. NEGATIVE EMOTIONS LIKE PRIDE, JEALOUSY, COMPARISONS, CRUELTY, RUDENESS, ATTACHMENTS, IGNORANCE, COMPLEXITY. SIMPLICITY IS HUMILITY, DETACHMENT &  cOMPASSION. iT BRINGS CLARITY, CLARITY FOR SOPHISTICATION, CREATIVITY, BRILLIANCE, INTELLIGENCE TO CHOOSE RIGHT PATH, PATH TO DIVINE SIMPLICITY.

ONE NEEDS TO BE PASSIONATE ENOUGH TO EXECUTE TASK IN HAND WHICH REQUIRES FOCUS, DEEP WORK & DEDICATION. ONE MUST DETACH ONESELF FROM THE END RESULTS TO TRULY ENJOY THE PROCESS. THE END RESULTS OR THE FRUITS ARE NOT IN ONE'S CONTROL AS FRUITS ARE BASED ON INTERNAL AS WELL AS EXTERNAL FACTORS . ONE CAN NOT OVER POWER THESE EXTERNAL FACTORS. ONE MUST SATISFY ONESELF BY CONTROLLING INTERNAL FACTORS TO THE EXTENT THAT END RESULTS WOULD NOT HAVE ANY EMOTIONAL IMPLICATIONS IN ONE'S LIFE WITH THE CONFIDENCE OF DELIVERING THE BEST FOR GIVEN TASK OR INSTANCE .

ONE MUST NOT GET ENTANGLE EMOTIONALLY TO EVERYTHING EVERY-TIME. ONE MAY HAVE TO BECOME PRACTICAL FOR PEACE OF MIND. DON'T LET OUR THOUGHT AND PEOPLE OVER POWER US. SOMETIMES BEST SOLUTION IS TO LET GO OF THINGS & DON'T ALLOW EGO TO PLAY AROUND. EMOTIONS ARE INHERENT TO HUMAN ATTRIBUTE AND THEY SHOW UP NATURALLY. IT IS OF UTMOST IMPORTANCE THAT WHERE AND WHEN DO WE ALLOW IT TO SHOW UP OUTSIDE. ONE HAS TO PRACTICE TO CHANNELISE EMOTIONS, CONVERT & UTILISE IT IN OTHER AREA OR FORM. SMARTNESS IS NOT IN REACTING EMOTIONALLY BUT IN REFRAINING, LOGICALLY ANALYSING, AND THEN DOING RIGHT THINGS.

DERELICTION IS failure to do what ONE MUST do, THE RIGHT THING. IT'S EASY TO SURRENDER THE entitlementS BUT HARD TO GET RID OF ONE'S DUTY. BROADLY one's duties CAN BE CLASSIFIED AS 1. FOR ONESELF, 2. FOR INNER-SELF & 3. FOR OTHERS. DUTY LEADS TO  ACCOUNTABILITY - FOR SELF, FOR INNER-SELF & FOR OTHERS. IT'S PAINFUL TO ABANDON ONE'S DUTIES OR RESPONSIBILITIES AS THEY ARE CLOSELY LINKED TO EMOTIONS IN FORM OF CODE OF HONOR. COH IS ABSOLUTELY POWERFUL SO IS THE GUILT CONNECTED WITH IT, FOR NOT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY AND ACCOUNTABILITY.

The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved; loved for ourselves, or rather, loved in spite of ourselves.  VICTOR HUGO A study done by Harvard concluded that true happiness lies in fulfilled relationships . That's it. It's not about money, not about status, not about achievement !! Deven shared this study and his insight that relationships with mortals are subject to give and take, JUDGMENTS, biases, temporary happiness, mutual benefit... and more... as mortals... emotions are not constantly in a state of bliss, these relationships have ups and downs... like a roller coaster...   IT prompted me to think about  Relationship . Relationships are not confined to the process of “Give & Take”, I believe it is all about giving, sharing, that to without any expectations of returns - WIIFM . Just like in a True and Pure Friendship , Expectations does not exists and  Intentions is to give -- love, respect, joy, happiness, support -- and in re...