FOOD FOR THOUGHT

ACCOMPLISHMENT IS A SCIENTIFIC PROCESS, ONE HAS TO FOLLOW RULES IN A DISCIPLINARY MANNER AND WITH PERSISTENCE FOR THE BEST RESULTS. OVER A PERIOD OF TIME FOLLOWING THIS PROCESS BECOMES HABIT AND WAY OF LIFE. ACHIEVEMENT - ACCOMPLISHMENT REMAINS BENCHMARK AS ONE CONTINUOUS THE DISCIPLINARY PROCESS AND IT DOES NOT MEAN END OF THE PROCESS, IN FACT THESE ACCOMPLISHMENTS ACTS AS A CATALYST AND EXPANDS THE INTENSITY AND SPEED OF THE UNDERLYING PROCESS, ACCOMPLISHMENTS ACTS AS A NEXUS AND KEEP ON GROWING IN MULTIPLE FOLDS AS ONE CONTINUOUS AND ABIDES BY THE PROCESS. IT'S NOT IN HUMAN NATURE TO STOP AT ANY POINT IN LIFE AND PUT A LIMIT TO THEIR DREAMS, AS LONG AS ONE KEEPS ON DREAMING ONE CONTINUES TO GROW, AND THE PROCESS OF ACCOMPLISHMENT BECOMES A JOURNEY FROM ONE MILESTONE TO ANOTHER.

IT'S HUMAN NATURE TO THINK AND DWELL IN PAST, THINK OF WHAT ONE COULD HAVE DONE AND HOW WOULD HAVE BEEN LIFE. BUT THE POINT IS NO MATTER HOW MUCH ONE DESIRES AND MAKES ATTEMPT TO LIVE BY STIMULATING PAST, ONE HAS NO POWER TO CHANGE PAST EVENTS AND MAKE BETTER FUTURE. ONE HAS TO FACE AND WORK ON CURRENT EVENTS TO HAVE BETTER FUTURE. ONE MUST LIVE BY USING HISTORICAL EXPERIENCES WISELY RATHER THAN REGRETTING PAST, IMAGINE FUTURE AND STIMULATE PRESENT. ONE MUST LIVE IN PRESENT HAPPILY TO BUILD BRIGHTER FUTURE, CONVERTING PAST EVENTS INTO ONE'S ADVANTAGE AND LIVING OUT OF TO FULLEST WITH IMAGINATION. WHAT ONE IMAGINES AND BELIEVES IS WHAT ONE GETS, IF ONE CONSTANTLY IMAGINES PAST (REMAINS IN PAST) THAN THERE ARE CHANCES THAT ONE MAY END UP REPEATING ONE'S OWN HISTORY, IF ONE CONSTANTLY IMAGINES BIGGER PURPOSES, STRIVES FOR IT AND REMAINS DETACHED FROM PAST, SKY IS THE LIMIT.

HUMANS ARE BORN WITH A GIFT OF INFINITE POTENTIAL BUT UNFORTUNATELY OVER A PERIOD OF TIME HUMAN LIMITS THEIR POTENTIAL BY THEIR BELIEFS. LIMITED BELIEFS STAGNATES THE ABILITY TO EXPLORE THE TRUE POTENTIAL, HENCE THE ABILITY TO GROW. LIFE MEANS HAPPINESS, HAPPINESS MEANS GROWTH AND GROWTH MEANS PROGRESS. HAPPINESS IS IN CHALLENGING ONESELF FROM ONE MILESTONE TO ANOTHER, DISCOVERING NEXT LEVEL, TO REMAIN CREATIVE, TO THINK BEYOND, TO EXPLORE THE TRUE POTENTIAL, HAPPINESS IS PROGRESS.

AS A HUMAN WE POSSESS VERY HIGH POTENTIAL, BUT LOT MANY TIMES WE ARE UNAWARE OF THE SAME DUE TO PAST EXPERIENCE. ON THE OTHER HAND WE SOMETIMES EXPECT TOO  MUCH FROM OUR SELF IN TOO LITTLE TIME. AT A TIMES WE NEED TO BE GENTLE WITH OUR SELF AFTER GIVING OUR BEST AND AT A TIMES WE NEED TO GET MORE OUT OF US CONSIDERING WE HAVE NOT GIVEN OUR BEST. BOTH THESE STANDINGS ARE SITUATIONAL AND PURELY DEPENDS ON THE MINDSET. IS IT PAMPERING OR DISCIPLINE WHICH ONE CAN LEAD TO FINAL RESULTS, ONE NEED TO FIND OUT WHAT'S MOTIVATES ONESELF TO BRING OUT BEST FROM WITHIN A PUSH OR A PULL OR A COMBINATION. BOTH PUSH AND PULL ARE PART OF ACTION, NO ACTION NO RESULTS AND WITH ACTION THERE ARE BOUND TO BE RESULTS. HARD REALITY IS THAT ONE NEED TO ACT WHETHER GENTLY OR INTENSELY AND ACCORDINGLY RESULTS MAY VARY.

WELL KNOWN ENEMIES OF HUMAN NATURE ARE EGO & ASSUMPTION. BOTH OF THEM BLIND EYES OF HUMAN AND DOES NOT ALLOW TO THINK BEYOND, TO THINK OF THE OTHER PERSPECTIVES OR ALTERNATIVES, KILLS THINKING POWER & CREATIVE MIND, NARROWING DOWN ONE'S ABILITIES, CREATING LIMITED BELIEFS. WITH LIMITED AWARENESS BREAKTHROUGH IS IMPOSSIBLE AND MAKING HUMAN TO THINK AROUND ONESELF. IN RELATIONSHIPS OR HUMAN INTERACTIONS SELF-CENTERED MIND KILLS FLEXIBILITY TO THINK ABOUT OTHERS, EGO & ASSUMPTION CREATES A WALL OF LIMITED COMMUNICATIONS OR EVEN NO COMMUNICATIONS. ONE CAN GET FREE FROM SUCH SITUATION BY ACCEPTING ONE'S AS WELL OTHER'S STRENGTHS & WEAKNESSES, BY GETTING RID OF EGO & ASSUMPTION AND BY ALLOWING BREAKTHROUGH - TRANSFORMATION FROM WITHIN. ACCEPTANCE OF THESE FACTS BRINGS DOWN THE WALLS AND ALLOWS EACH ONE TO GROW BY CREATING WIN-WIN SITUATION.

IT'S A HUMAN NATURE, OUT OF EXCITEMENT OR COMPRESSION, ONE JUMPS INTO CERTAIN TASK OR WORK OR ACTIVITY, BUT SOONER OR LATER GETS ATTACHED TO ANOTHER TASK AND LEAVES THE PREVIOUS ONE INCOMPLETE. SLOWLY ONE KEEPS ON REPEATING SUCH ACT WITHOUT EVEN BEEN AWARE AND IT BECOMES HABIT. FOR ANY TASK OR WORK OR ACTIVITY ONE HAS TO EITHER GIVE 0% OR 100% , THERE IS NOTHING IN BETWEEN. ONE MUST START A TASK WITH 100% COMMITMENT, FOCUS AND WILL, MUST NOT GET DISTRACTED OR CARRIED AWAY BETWEEN TASKS. SOON IT BECOMES HABIT, A HABIT WITH 100% AWARENESS . ONE MUST START TO COMPLETE THE TASK, ONE MUST FINISH THROUGH THE FINISHING LINE !!

NEITHER ONE CAN BUY HAPPINESS NOR CAN BORROW, HAPPINESS IS WITHIN AND NEEDS TO BE REALISED. DEEP WITHIN HAPPINESS IS INTEGRAL PART OF HUMAN NATURE BUT OVER PERIOD RIGHT FROM THE CHILDHOOD AND IT'S CAMOUFLAGED BY THE LAYERS OF MATERIALISM. WE CAN REALISE HAPPINESS BY ACTING UPON THESE LAYERS, BY BREAKING ONE AFTER ANOTHER. BY LEAVING PATH OF DISCONTENTMENT, EXPECTATIONS, DESIRES AND MOVING TOWARDS PATH OF CONTENTMENT, INTENTIONS, DETACHMENTS. ANY ACTION IN THIS DIRECTION WILL LEAD TO HAPPINESS.

ONE MUST NOT GET ENTANGLE EMOTIONALLY TO EVERYTHING EVERY-TIME. ONE MAY HAVE TO BECOME PRACTICAL FOR PEACE OF MIND. DON'T LET OUR THOUGHT AND PEOPLE OVER POWER US. SOMETIMES BEST SOLUTION IS TO LET GO OF THINGS & DON'T ALLOW EGO TO PLAY AROUND. EMOTIONS ARE INHERENT TO HUMAN ATTRIBUTE AND THEY SHOW UP NATURALLY. IT IS OF UTMOST IMPORTANCE THAT WHERE AND WHEN DO WE ALLOW IT TO SHOW UP OUTSIDE. ONE HAS TO PRACTICE TO CHANNELISE EMOTIONS, CONVERT & UTILISE IT IN OTHER AREA OR FORM. SMARTNESS IS NOT IN REACTING EMOTIONALLY BUT IN REFRAINING, LOGICALLY ANALYSING, AND THEN DOING RIGHT THINGS.

OUR MIND ALWAYS LOOKS FOR PROTECTION AND SHIELDS US AWAY FROM BEING TRUTHFUL ESPECIALLY TO OURSELVES. THIS REASONING MIND ALWAYS COMES UP WITH EXCUSES, HIDING AWAY THE  FACE OF HARD REALITY FROM US. IDEALLY WE MUST REMAIN NEUTRAL IN ALL SITUATIONS, EVEN NEUTRAL TO OURSELVES. NEUTRALITY BRINGS OUT THE TRUE HONESTY WITHIN US.  THIS UNBIASED HONESTY GIVES BIRTH TO HUMILITY AND COMPASSION , THE ESSENTIAL QUALITY OF BEING HUMAN.